Stress numbers were first introduced to
numerology by this author in a previous publication. The stress number serves
to accentuate differences between two numbers. It helps to define the tension
between the vibrational qualities of the numbers being compared. Stress numbers
are like points of tension or opposition which need to be overcome before the
two numbers of comparison can best function harmoniously together.
As implied by the use of the term stress
number, they are more pronounced when our life is under stress. Under such
pressure the tendency is to manifest more of our unconscious mannerism rather
than our best behavior. Most of us, of course, do not like to see that part of
our behavior. They are presented to help bring negative unconscious traits into
light. Once you recognize these, you
have a choice to resolve them. Gone unacknowledged, you remain a victim of your
negative existence.
The stress numbers have been divided into
two groupings: the intrapersonal stress numbers and the interpersonal. The
intrapersonal number is calculated by subtracting the smaller of two primary
numbers from the larger of the two. In this instance, primary number refers to
the personality, soul, integrated self, or life number. When subtracting, all
the numbers should be reduced to a single digit. First, compute the difference
between the personality (P) and soul (S); then between the personality and
integrated self (IS); finally between the soul and integrated self.
From this set of calculations, you will
have three stress numbers (unless two of the primaries are the same). Finally,
compute the difference between the life number (LN) and personality number;
then life number and soul; and then life number and integrated self. You will
then have a second set of calculations composed of three additional stress
numbers, giving a total of six stress numbers.
Let us say your IS=8, S = 5, P = 3, and LN =
6. The stress numbers would be computed as follows:
Difference between S and
P, or 5 - 3=2 Stress Number
Difference between IS
and P, or 8 - 3=5
Stress Number
Difference between IS and
S, or 8 - 5=3 Stress Number
Difference between LN and
P, or 6 - 3=3 Stress Number
Difference between LN and
S, or 6 - 5=1 Stress Number
Difference between LN and IS, or
8 - 6=2 Stress Number
You will note, the combinations that
provide the stress numbers are also purposely written out. Now refer to these
numbers by combinations using the intrapersonal description on the following pages.
The combinations are arranged in numerical order purely for purposes of
systematic arrangement.
Interpersonal stress numbers are computed
by subtracting the difference between the primary numbers in each chart. That
is, when comparing charts, the major stress number is the difference between
the personality numbers of both charts, the integrated self, and the life
numbers. An example is given below:
CHART A CHART B
P=4 P=2 4 - 2=2 Stress
Number
S=7
S=1 7 - 1=6 Stress
Number
IS=2(11) IS=3 3 - 2=1 Stress
Number
A further use for stress numbers when
assessing compatibilities between charts is to compute the difference between
the numbers on the planes of expression: Physical, Emotional, Mental, and
Intuitive. If a further comparison is desired, you can subtract the difference
between the personality number of one chart and the life or soul number in
another. You may also devise effective ways of your own for using these stress
combinations.
The
intrapersonal stress numbers provide a method of examining potential
crosscurrents within the individual's psychological make-up. Stress numbers
help to pinpoint likely subconscious tensions between the needs and actions of
the personality, soul, and higher self. By consciously recognizing these stress
areas the combination can be then transmuted into a cooperative dynamic flow
between the three fold structure of consciousness: personality, soul, and higher self.
The interpersonal stress numbers are
indicative of the differences between the two charts that should be understood
for reaching greater compatibility and cooperative blending of the two
vibrational qualities of the involved primary numbers. They point out where
resistance will occur between two people, but they can also reveal the easiest
avenue for working harmoniously.
As mentioned earlier, the descriptive
paragraphs emphasize the subconscious and karmic traits. You will think of
wholly new ways to apply the stress numbers because this new area of
interpretation will require much further investigation and application. My
desire is to get subconscious conflicts recognized and resolved for more
effective living. Therefore, the emphasis from now on is upon the negative side
of the stress numbers.
The interpersonal stress numbers are
particularly useful for understanding
marriage, parent-child, employee-employer, or other relationships.
Used wisely, it provides insight to overcome the difference that allows the
people involved to form a more complete union.
The question may have arisen in your mind
about the meaning of two numbers in the chart being the same, i.e. a number two
soul number and a two personality number. Or two people's charts, each having
the same life number that provides no stress number. We have already discussed
many times how each number has an assertive, passive, and a harmonious quality.
When two exact numbers are compared, the possibility of stress arises from the
increased likelihood of going to extremes.
When two people have the same numbers, it
is similar to people having the same sun signs or similar aspects in the
astrology chart. They may fail to see the imbalance in their mutual life and
commit excesses or omissions blindly together. Another possibility is that when
one fails to recognize a negative within himself, it is very easy to
overemphasize and pick on that idiosyncrasy of the spouse or partner. On the
other hand, the ideal situation would be that when one partner moves too far
out of balance in one direction, the other partner may be going the opposite
way, and this cycle could work to teach both the lesson of harmony and mutual
growth.
When you read the descriptions pertaining
to the interpersonal stress numbers, it may appear that in certain instances,
the role described will seem more applicable to the other individual involved.
Just remember, we choose the opposite sometimes to learn balance, so roles can
often seem reversed. That could indicate where balance is necessary.
The descriptions
for the interpersonal stress numbers are admittedly quite general.
They are intended
as guidelines to help you establish your own concepts. The dynamics
of the stress
between a 5-9 soul combination would differ from a 5-9 personality
combination, as well as from the 5-9 life
number combination. The reader should use intuitive wisdom and common sense of
these different levels of interpretation when evaluating the stress numbers.
1-2--STRESS NUMBER (1). There is conflict
between assertiveness of will and fear of social criticism. You are struggling
within yourself to find your own self-convictions. In competition or under
stress, you are argumentative and critical. You must outfox, outwit or
outperform others. A karmic pattern of
working out a tendency toward gossip or scandalous accusations may return,
directed toward you in this life. You want to dominate relationships, and you
find conflict with an intensely self-willed spouse, relatives, or friends. You
may find it difficult to establish direction and conviction, particularly until
your early thirties. It is likely you were raised in a dogmatic and critical,
religious, or socially active family that left you caught between strong
personal ambitions and indoctrinated conscience. Common addictions include
socializing, entertainment, pets, relationships, drugs, collecting, chocolates
and smoking among many.
1-9—STRESS NUMBER (8). There is a pull
between extreme opposite polarities. Self-will is pitted against altruistic
needs to serve the mass consciousness. You seek attention to build ego. There
is a likelihood of dissension with authority. You are cynical toward successful
leaders and covet influence. You use self-deception and unscrupulous means of
tricking the public. In personal relationships you are opportunistic and
exploitive. You take advantage of others' dreams and idealism to attain your
own ends. You are indifferent to the plight of the poor and helpless. Until a
proper perspective is placed upon wealth, you will likely experience financial
reversals. You can offset the negative here by altruistic application of your
individuality to help others. But it will take rigorous effort. Common
addictions include hobbies, pets, money, chocolate, sugar, food, institutions,
religious fanaticism and entertainment.
COMBINATIONS WITH NUMBER TWO
2-3—STRESS NUMBER (1). With this stress
pattern, you tend to be torn between self-criticism and creative potential.
There is a fear your ideas will not be accepted by the public. You need to
strengthen your self-confidence and will. You likely express a fake sense of
pride to mask the self-doubt indicated. You are plagued with sensitivity,
apprehension, and worry over minute details and inconsequential trivia. You
lack the male drive to initiate positive action. Your passive-aggressive nature
is disguised beneath a kind of confused wishy-washy easy going persona. Do you receive much criticism from
coworkers? You must use your own strength of will to discern what is
significant to your life; then go after it, regardless of outside criticism.
Common addictions include shopping, chocolate, alcohol, sugar, sex,
relationships, food, entertainment and socializing.
COMBINATIONS WITH NUMBER EIGHT
8-9—STRESS NUMBER (1). Past misuse of will
puts you in a position of choosing between selfish aspiration for power and an
opportunity of selfless service for mankind. There is much self-control and
desire to lead and influence people. It is very easy for you to arrange other
peoples' lives and tell what is best for them. You did it in other lives, and
maybe you will let go this time and do a better job with your own life. You
could well be a great savior to mankind or a megalomaniac dictator. You build
you low self-esteem by ridiculing others. Use your originality and
determination to build a better you. The world will automatically benefit from
your contribution. You have a reserved and gruff exterior and excellent mind.
Beneath this is a stubborn determination that helps you overcome obstacles and
attain your goal. Just be careful not to trample others on your way. Common
addictions are speed-danger, movies, gambling, sex, alcohol, money, power,
sports and work.
INTERPERSONAL STRESS NUMBERS
COMBINATIONS WITH NUMBER THREE
3-4—STRESS NUMBER (1). A distinctly
different lifestyle and attitude challenge the will aspect in both parties of
this combination. The three misconstrues the four's seriousness, and the four
is irritated by the whimsical three. The three may depend upon the four for
support, but the four takes work so seriously that he fails to give emotional
strength. The four needs to learn to loosen up and enjoy life more
spontaneously, but cannot grasp the spontaneity and illogical whims of the
three. A significant difference in goals is likely. The four seeks a boost to
will, but the three has so many distractions that it is difficult to sustain
support. The three seeks strength of will, but the four's discipline and
serious outlook are difficult to accept. Both parties must be willing to
recognize the fundamental individuality and will in the other. Together, this
combination blends spontaneity with discipline.
3-9—STRESS NUMBER (6). This emotionally
fluctuating combination must seek a realistic attitude toward responsibility.
The three relies upon the nine's idealism and faith, while the nine expects the
three to take care of business. The three's worry tendency upsets the natural idealism
and optimism of the nine; the nine's detachment creates an emotional
frustration for the three. The three's varied interests and diversions
antagonize the nine, who would like more personal attention. On the other hand,
the nine can get caught up in ideals and causes, becoming quite indifferent to
the personal needs of the three. Both parties must strive for mature solutions
in areas of responsibility and support. Each tends to place often totally
unrealistic demands upon the other for security and domestic tranquility.
COMBINATIONS WITH NUMBER FOUR
4-5—STRESS NUMBER (l). Four and five are
like polar opposites, so this combination will undergo considerable strain in
accepting the individuality and will of each one involved.
The five can abuse the
privilege of freedom and individuality and resents the possessive and plodding
four. The four clings stubbornly to habit and custom and becomes annoyed with
the five's total disregard for rules and accepted norms of behavior. Their
struggle will likely persist: expansive tendencies of five against the
restrictive nature of the four. The four works so hard to make things
comfortable and cozy, but the five is seldom home to appreciate the work. The
five has no tolerance for the confinement imposed by the four. There will be
many arguments that flair up intensely and are over quickly. The five can learn
patience and discipline from the four, and the four can learn to be more
independent and spontaneous from the five.
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